5 Ways to Tell If A Girl Really Likes You and Know for Sure

You’re starting to think about her too much. You’re spacing out on conversations with other people. You can’t stop fantasizing about this one chick. Problem is you don’t know know if she feels the same. No worries, there are easy ways to get a handle on this. Here’s 5 ways to tell if a girl really likes you or not.

How to Tell if a Girl Really Likes You Method 1: Recognize How She Orients Herself. When a girl likes you, she will give a ton of body language cues. Mainly she will point at you.

  1. Her chin points your way. She may disguise this by looking at her phone or a book.
  2. Her hips point your direction. If she turns her head her hips won’t lie.
  3. She’ll point her feet. It’s the most subtle yet telling sign if her toes always point at you.

How to Tell if a Girl Really Likes You Method 2: Watch Out for Eye Contact.

Unlike guys, girls have no problem looking you right in the eye when they are attracted to you. It’s almost like they seek out eye contact so they can try to read your mind. Guys have this weird problem of being extremely bashful with eye contact, ESPECIALLY when it comes to girls they like. If you catch her locking in on your beautiful blues (browns, hazels, yellows, etc.) it’s a good sign a girl really likes you.

If you are lucky enough to pick up this signal, make sure you return the eye contact. Make a game of it. Look her right back in her eyeballs and hold on for dear life. First one to break eye contact loses. If the girl giggles, looks down, and says, “what?” you have won. You should ask her out right there because she really likes you.

How to Tell if a Girl Really Likes You Method 3: She Touches You.

Holy canoly, is there a better sign that a girl likes you besides touch? Yet there are some guys who just can’t take a hint. If she touches you, it’s time to assume she is attracted to you. Still, keep watching for the other signs. If you are getting the first two signals and then she throws touch on top, you’ve got yourself a smitten lady.

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If a girl is going out of her way to touch you a lot, there’s a good chance she really likes you.

Still, some girls won’t touch you no matter how much they like you. They may be scared or nervous themselves. Watch to see if she positions herself inside your personal space. If she is closer than you’d permit a stranger off the street to be, she likes you and you should try to initiate some flirty touching yourself. I’ve found that once you break the ice with flirty touch, the girl will be a lot more comfortable flirting. Often this comes from grabbing your arm or wrist when they are excited, or pushing or hitting you when you make a smart alec comment.

How to Tell if a Girl Really Likes You Method 4: She Fidgets A Lot.

This one can be a little iffy. If a girl is touching her hair or fidgeting a lot, it is a sign of nerves. So she’s nervous, but what about? If you make a girl nervous it is either really good or really bad. Is it because she really likes you or you freak her out? To know which one is easy.

You have to do one thing. Nothing. Stop all movement. Don’t fidget. Speak slowly, in as controlled a manner as possible. Pace your breathing. If you are stoic and she is still fidgeting it’s an indication that her nerves are coming from within, not something you are doing. That’s a good sign that she’s nervous because she likes you.

How to Tell if a Girl Really Likes You Method 5: You Make A Move and She Doesn’t Bolt.

Do you really want to know if a girl likes you? Like really really? There is one surefire way to accomplish this. Polarize her (A GREAT guide for this is Mark Manson’s book, Models. I highly recommend it if you want to learn how to naturally attract women with honesty – not games). Consider a girl’s attraction like a stoplight and you’re on yellow. You want to push her to decide green or red.

To polarize her all you have to do is make a simple move. You’re move doesn’t have to be overtly sexual, but it has to have some romantic connotation. One of my favorite moves is to touch her knee. Don’t grab, grope, or do anything aggressive. Just set your hand on her knee when you speak. See if she welcomes your touch. If she doesn’t flinch or turn her body away within a couple minutes of your touch, she likes you.

P.S. Can you see how a little guidance could help you do better with women? Are you interested in doing better with women? I’ve written entire novels (literally) about attracting women and going on dates. So how soon do you want to be better with women? Check my novels out here.

5 Ways to Tell If A Girl Really Likes You and Know for Sure
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About the Author Kyle Milligan

I'm Kyle Milligan, I write New Adult Books that don't suck. i.e. The Hang-Ups and Hangovers series. I like to write about the challenges of being a single twenty-something in today's hookup culture. My blog offers Dating Advice For Men.

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