How Do I Handle A Person Who Rejected Me and Still Wants to Talk?

How Do I Handle A Person Who Rejected Me-

Having trouble dealing with someone who rejected you and wants to make amends? That’s exactly what our Quora question of the day is all about!

Check out the video and transcript below for more details.

What’s up guys? Kyle Milligan, of realkylemilligan.com and today we’re gonna answer a question on Quora under the “Dating and Relationships” topic. We’re gonna be the first answer here, which is cool because I’m gonna get this video uploaded and embedded here so maybe our question asker can check this out.

The question is “How can I handle a person who rejected me and now feels sorry, but I don’t want to talk to her?” I think the answer is right there in the sentence. There is a person who rejected you and now feels sorry.



First, let’s talk about that. Does she really feel sorry? What does she feel sorry for? What really has happened is she probably just feels like she doesn’t want to come off as a bad person or have bad blood or bad vibes.

She really wants to protect her own ego and make sure that she doesn’t feel like, “Was I mean or was I bad person? I need him to tell me that it’s okay.” That’s more about her feeling good about herself than it actually is about making amends with you and apologizing and making you feel good about you. So forget that.

Do YOU Want to Talk to Her?

The second part. You don’t want to talk to her. Well, as a man, you DON’T talk to her.

As a man, you do what you want. And I think the fact that you are on Quora asking this question shows that you haven’t embodied that. You haven’t embraced that attribute that “I don’t care.” That IDGAF bro. That attitude that it’s no big deal and you shake it off. The fact that you came to Quora for help show that it IS kind of a big deal to you.

The best way to handle someone you don’t want to talk to, is to simply be like I don’t want to talk to this person. You can just ignore calls, ignore texts. That’s it. It’s as simple as that. If you ask someone out and it didn’t go that way, dating is a numbers game. Just on the the next one bro.

It’s over here, this one didn’t work out. You should have a line-up, a pipeline of others ready to line up for back-ups or things to go do or other things to do. So I mean, if you don’t wanna talk to her, don’t talk to her. If she rejected you and feels sorry, it’s probably more about her than it is about you, and I think your best bet is to move on.

Get off Quora. Go ask a girl out. Go ask three girls out. Hopefully one says yes. Dating is like sales, it’s a numbers game. Just ask a couple more girls out, you’ll forget about her in a day. You’ll forget about her the moment someone else says yes. Alright, so go out there. That’s all I got for you today.

Original Quora Thread:

https://www.quora.com/How-can-I-handle-a-person-who-rejected-me-and-now-feels-sorry-but-I-don%E2%80%99t-want-to-talk-to-her

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Having trouble dealing with someone who rejected you and wants to make amends? That's exactly what our Quora question of the day is all about!

About the Author Kyle Milligan

I'm Kyle Milligan, I write New Adult Books that don't suck. i.e. The Hang-Ups and Hangovers series. I like to write about the challenges of being a single twenty-something in today's hookup culture. My blog offers Dating Advice For Men.

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