Category Archives for Attraction

One Basic Reason Why Women Flake That You Need to Know

One Basic Reason Why Women Flake That You Need to Know

James, So she cancelled the date at the last minute, huh? Go figure. I’m not upset and you shouldn’t be either. Not that I didn’t have faith in you, but I had already planned for this and was ready to write this specific letter. You see, James, you are still early in your journey. Even guys who “get […]

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3 Surprising Reasons the First Date Should Be All About the Guy

3 Surprising Reasons the First Date Should Be All About the Guy

James, You got a number! Congrats! And from the very girl you missed at the party last weekend! I’m impressed and proud. Now that you have a girl’s number, today’s letter is dedicated to the first date. First, I want to congratulate you on the things you did RIGHT. Let’s look over your recount of the […]

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The Secret Benefits of Getting Shot Down 30 Times in Your Twenties

The Secret Benefits of Getting Shot Down 30 Times in Your Twenties

James, I’m sitting here with my dark roast coffee ready to go nuts about the dos and don’ts of body language with meeting women. But then I thought about the questions you had asked recently and it him me: You haven’t asked any questions lately. Not one messed up conversation. Not one corny opener. Not one story. […]

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How to Manage Your Voice Pitch To Keep Women’s Attention

How to Manage Your Voice Pitch To Keep Womens Attention

James, I was walking into Target to pick up the board game Monopoly when I saw something that made me cringe. A mother with two young kids was yelling at them to hurry up and leave. The troublemaker was a little boy who had stopped to look at toys or candy or something. What his mother […]

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Never Run Out of Things to Talk About With A Girl Using These 3 Sales Questions

Never Run Out of Things to Talk About With A Girl Using These 3 Sales Questions

James, I’ve talked a lot about how you should approach talking to women. I’ve already told you to be confident and direct when saying hi to a girl. I’ve beat the confidence horse to death by now haven’t I? Let’s talk some today about what successfully talking to girls looks like. Specifically, things to talk […]

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I Want To Hurt Myself – How To Avoid My Terrible Mistakes With Women

I Want To Hurt Myself - How To Avoid My Terrible Mistakes With Women

James, “I want to hurt myself.” I remember sections of my life, sometimes spanning months, where I thought thoughts like this. I just hated myself so badly. I wanted to poison my body until it withered and I felt like the piece of shit I was. I did this mostly with alcohol. Unlike some alcoholics I […]

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How to Talk to Women for Introverts – Adapting The Right Mindset

How to Talk to Women for Introverts Adapting The Right Mindset

James, It’s time to learn how to talk to women. By now you should have a date or two lined up. I’ve showed you how to get more matches on Tinder. I’ve also showed you how to get a girl on Tinder in nine messages. All the while I’ve been hammering the same lessons about being […]

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Three Simple Tricks For Introverts To Be More Talkative TODAY

Three Simple Tricks For Introverts To Be More Talkative TODAY

James, Today I was sitting in Starbucks a bit frustrated. Why was I frustrated? Because I sat down to knock out my next letter to you but I couldn’t think of anything to teach you. I typed about 700 words and deleted them all. I took a break and got in line for a coffee […]

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Should I Add Her On Facebook? The Definitive Answer To A BIG Mistake

Should I Add Her On Facebook? The Definitive Answer To A BIG Mistake

James, Today you asked me some questions on Facebook that proved concerns I’ve had. You see, over my last six letters I have been worried that my advice has been far too theoretical. That’s why in my last letter I showed you my principles at work and demonstrated how to get a girl on Tinder in […]

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How To Get A Girl On Tinder In 9 Messages Flat

How To Get A Girl On Tinder In 9 Messages Flat

James, We are steadily progressing! I’m excited for the new stuff we’re going to cover today. In my last letter I explained exactly how to start a Tinder conversation and make the girls do all the work with one SIMPLE opener. Well, let’s put that Tinder opener to the test, shall we? Picking up right where my […]

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